Marriage is a destined stage in our life. Some of my friends are already married in an early marriage, that is why I want to share something about marriage. Nowadays, people debate
over the pros and cons of early marriage and late marriage. Some people get
married early just because of their environment and culture. Some have to marry
their partner due to pregnancy or other social issues. In some parts of the
world, people focus more on education and career and they prefer to marry late.
In my opinion, each have its own advantages and disadvantages.
Bride and groom wouldn’t be really prepared for the real life in
early marriages. Their immaturity can lead to crisis in the family and
eventually divorces. Ones need to have enough personal skills to maintain a
healthy marriage and family. However, having baby at an early twenties can have
some other advantages. In such cases, parents and children would grow up in
similar culture and they can have more understandings to each other.
Late marriage will result in late childbirth which is not very
ideal for both mother’s and baby’s health. Then, people will plan give birth to
less children than those in early marriages. Some might even plan to adopt one.
Having less children means less bound between husband and wife. However, around
thirties people has been gone through tough days of their life and they tend to
have more stable career and situations. This can avoid divorces due to
financial struggle.
Neither early marriage nor late marriage has advantages over each
other. The health of a marriage depends more on the individuals mindset rather
than the age they get married.
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